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The High Notes: Anal Sex, Ghosting, Trans Love

Last updated September 5, 2018

The High Notes – Issue #37
 
Welcome back to The High Notes – your curation of the best and most pleasurable news from around the world.
 
This issue, we’re talking about: 
 
Hanx  |  Ghosting  |  Anal Sex 101  |  Sex Olympics  |  Ela Darling  |  Sensory Objects for sexual assault  |  Choking  |  Sex addiction  |  Muffing  |  Breastfeeding & intimacy
 
Enjoy!

STACCATO – short and sharp, quick reads
 
–   Huge congratulations to our friends over at Hanx who won the Stylist Creative Collective award for their beautiful new condoms. We have negotiated a cheeky little discount that you can use to try them yourself… 

– Thinking about ghosting your latest date? No need – the BBC gave us some fool-proof break up text templates designed by experts. Phew!

– Harvard University hosted a workshop on anal sex on campus. It was called “What What in the Butt: Anal 101”. Which is my new favourite name for a University course.

–  Australia voted for same sex marriage. Woohoo! 


PODCAST  – curious about sex?

–   The Curious Nature of Sex is full steam ahead – we’ve licked condoms, read some very naughty stories and even started planning our own Sex Olympics. Make sure you catch up now!


A PIACERE  – enjoy at your pleasure

–   Rolling Stone profiled Ela Darling – porn actor, activist, and technology pioneer. She’s a badass.

–  Design graduate Nienke Helder has created a set of sensory objects designed to assist people who have experienced sexual assault.  The items include a sensor that lights up when the person’s breathing becomes tense, a signal for their partner to try to relax them.  

–  Are you into choking during sex? Erotic choking is dangerous – even for experts. This article looks at the reasons why people do it – and how to do it as safely as possible. 


ADAGIO – longer reads, dive a little deeper

–  Is sex addiction real? This week, three not-for-profits came out to say the term could be misleading – or even harmful. 

–  This is a slightly older article – but so important. In 2010, a trans woman called Mira Bellwether published an underground zine called Fucking Trans Women, an important piece highlighting trans pleasure. Broadly expands on one aspect – muffing. 

– In this article in The Cut, one mother recounts how breastfeeding negatively affected her sex drive. Reclaiming intimacy after having children is a topic I’m very interested in – we wrote our first article on it in Consumer Health Digest recently. 


END NOTE

Phew – can’t quite believe we’re getting close to Christmas! Although – getting cosy at home when it’s cold outside is the perfect time to listen to The Curious Nature of Sex.

Huge thanks to the team at Bustle who included us in this article of 12 sex toys that porn stars and sex coaches swear by

Let’s keep elevating the discussion on pleasure. Have a great week.

Always yours,
Stephanie Alys 

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