7 Creative Sex Positions That Couples Can Play With VibratorsLast updated January 31, 2019
We spoke to a few relationship experts on some of the creative ways you and your partner can creatively play with vibrators.
Karen Linder, owner sexual health and wellness company, U & Me Time, explains that “creativity is based on a couples’ willingness to relax and have fun—not the usual routine they follow.”
Why Introduce Vibrators Into The Bedroom?
Only 25% of women are able to orgasm from penetration alone and studies have shown that men receive 3 orgasms for every 1 that women receive.
It’s time to give the clitoris more consideration during sex to end the orgasm gap. It’s time to talk about and practise more pleasurable sex to help close the orgasm gap.
Our mission at MysteryVibe is to enhance pleasure in the bedroom through sextech. Vibrators are a tool that add another level of excitement and mystery to people’s sexual experience. We have developed products that generate pleasure for both partners during sexual play.
Crescendo, the body-adaptable smart vibrator, can bend to take the shape of the user’s body, offering countless vibrations for a truly personalised pleasure experience for you and your partner. Use it to stimulate multiple erogenous zones during sex.
Tenuto, the wearable smart vibrator for men, features six vibration zones, from the base of the penis all the way to the perineum. It can be worn during solo play and sex with a partner, providing pleasure for both people.
Alex Reddle, Chief editor of Flirt.com and sex and relationships expert, explains that…
…“Couples will inevitably experience their fair share of ups and downs, but a vibrant sex life is a good indicator that all is going well. Many partners feel so satisfied with one another they are content to keep their physicality within certain parameters. Others prefer experimentation.
Sex toys might have a somewhat intimidatory air, especially where either party has never utilised them before. But they will certainly enhance proceedings.”
How To Introduce Vibrators To The Bedroom?
As vibrators may have an “intimidatory air”, it is especially important to be conscientious when introducing them to a partner.
Communication is key! Explain to your partner that your pleasure is important. Reassure them that it is not a comment on their performance, but an exciting tool that will augment both of your experience.
A great way to do this is by making it something to look forward to. Why not buy each other a vibrator as a gift that you can use on them and they can use theirs on you! Or vice versa.
Just make sure you have a conversation before “whipping” it out, as you want avoid a negative response.
7 Creative Ways That Couples Play With Vibrators
1. Erotic massage
Caleb Backe, a Health and Wellness Expert for Maple Holistics, suggests “using that “back massager” for an actual body massage.” Using Crescendo can be a great way to build up the sexual tension in a relationship.
Have your partner lay down and tease them with the vibrations all over their body. Avoid their genitals and awaken other erogenous zones such as the inner thigh and neck – this will also release any build of the stress hormone cortisol, making orgasm much more achievable.
When they are begging for more, Alex Riddle suggests “sending waves of pleasure to [the] clit or G-spot,” or penis and perineum to bring them to climax.
2. Combined with oral sex
Using the mouth and tongue along with the vibrations will take you and your partner to the realms of pleasure town.
For this position “Vibe n Blow” try wrapping your lips around the tip, place Crescendo under the base of the penis with the fins stimulating the perineum. The vibrations will excite the nerve endings in both the penis and the mouth, adding that extra buzz to your oral play.
Caleb explains that…
“…using a vibe on your chin or cheeks while going down on him or her. It can heighten the sensation like nothing else, but it needs to be comfortable so you can focus on the task at hand and not resort to rearrange the position each time.”
3. Mutual Pleasure
You can also pleasure yourself with a vibrator whilst giving oral sex to your partner. Like “double edged-seduction” here.
Slide Crescendo inside you with the fins resting on your clitoris as you lick your partners clitoris. This sensation will double the fun building you both to a state of mutual bliss, moaning along to each other’s pleasure.
There are a range of vibrators that can be used and worn during penetrative sex. Some of which include vibrating strap ons, cock rings and mini-vibes that slot into the vagina along with the penis.
While sex toys have long been associated with clitoral stimulation or penetration, vibrating cock rings come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are perfect for couples because the vibration stimulates the G-spot while the constriction around his shaft increases his staying power.
“They’ll also give him sparks of pleasure when tremors pulse down his shaft when he’s inside.” – Alex
4. Shower Sex
A wonderfully creative way couples play with sex toys are in water. Just make sure the vibrator is 100% waterproof and submersible!
Both Crescendo and Tenuto are useable in water.
Try bending over and kneeling towards the wall with the shower pointed on your back, dripping down your genitals.
In this position we like to call “Derriere Delight” a partner can be penetrated with Crescendo or with a vibrating penis in Tenuto from behind while supporting the hips.
Tease your partner with Crescendo’s silky smooth caress, starting from their inner thigh and leading up to their anus being careful not to slide it in. Crescendo doesn’t have a flared base so can’t be used for anal play, but you can definitely flirt and stimulate your partner’s nerve endings to build up desire.
Read here for 5 Shower Positions That Actually Work.
Watching someone experiencing pleasure is such a turn on. Karen asks “have you ever used a well positioned mirror for better alternate views?”
Become a voyeur and ask your partner to use their vibrator on themselves. You can see them pleasure themselves to climax and you may even learn some new things about how to pleasure them too.
“Fly casual” for this Han-solo voyage of temptation. Wrap Tenuto around your shaft and balls, lie back, stroking yourself simultaneously with the rumbling vibrations to feel the force within you.
Let go of control, or take complete control with the MysteryApp, adding a whole other level of creative mystery to the bedroom.
“What more could you ask for than a sex toy driven by smartphone technology? This device transforms your phone into the remote. Not only can you deftly alter the controls when you’re up close and personal, you can provide the appropriate stimulation from distance thanks to the relevant app being wifi-enabled. The gadget comes with built-in vibration patterns, or you can let your creative juices flow and program the vibrator yourself. It comes with rechargeable batteries, meaning it is on-hand at any time”.
Positions such as “quivering surrender” and “smart domination” are some creative examples of how this can be achieved.
Take control of your partner’s orgasm, building up the anticipation by remote controlling Tenuto’s vibrations with the MysteryApp. Have the tip of the penis touching the base of the toy to send vibrations reverberating along the whole shaft and frenulum, and play with edging and orgasm denial.
“The beauty of this device is it comes with a remote control so either party can take over the job of teasing the respective erogenous zones.” – Alex
7. Public Sex
You can even take vibrators out of the bedroom! If you’re a little agoraphilic, (have a fetish for having sex in the outdoors) then you can use the MysteryApp control while your in public…
Karen notes that this “gives one partner the ability to “surprise” the other in a variety of locations.”
Caleb suggests “using toys when in a non-nude situation since the clothing adds friction and heightens the anticipation.”
Just Remember To Stay Safe
Of course vibrators are all fun and games… but Karen reminds us that “obviously being too creative can land couples in the ER, so using common sense is important.”
Be cautious and invest in a good vibrator – and steer clear from DIY sex toys. If you need any more persuading, here’s some horror stories of DIY sex toys in our article on The Importance of Sex Toys in Sex Education.